Make no mistake; there are times when blame is clearly appropriate. Sometimes people just screw up big time and the sooner you accept that axiom of life the better.

However, few things are more distasteful to any person than being blamed. it is hard on the self esteem and we all make mistakes from time to time. And please remember that even if the blame was well deserved it is always better to correct someone in private rather than publicly.

Also, isn't it funny how those who never admit to their mistakes are usually the first to blame and nobody likes a "blamer." When things go south, losers blame and winners convert the situation into the learning opportunity that it truly is!